"I dont mind living in a man's world as long as I can be a woman in it." ~Marilyn Monroe

"I don't mind living in a man's body as long as I can be a woman in it." ~VinVin Jacla

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Saturday, January 28, 2017

Bullies and my pink Puma rubber shoes

Bullies come in all forms and sizes. And ages.

I bought this pair of Puma rubber shoes at a DFO superstore in Melbourne, Australia for only AUD 30 last year. Yes. It was on sale. 70% off.

While I was at Legaspi Active Park a few days ago, 2 kids (boys) who were playing there approached me and took notice of my rubber shoes. "Why is his shoes pink?", one of them said and they both started giggling. I knew where that was gonna lead to so I just chose to ignore them and focused on finishing my routine instead. I'm used to this (people making fun of me because I'm different, etc.), I told myself. But then this one guy stepped forward and spoke to those kids. "Can you just go away?", he told them.

When I finished, I stood up and told the guy the that it's fine and that I was used to it already. But deep inside I felt happy that there's still a guy in this world who stood up for me and made me feel safe to be with his company. Not that I needed anyone to stand up or fight for me, of course. I know I have a strong personality and I also know how to protect myself. But as time went by, I somehow learned to ignore stuff like this and just moved on with my life. Like I always say, I just LIVE.

But to that guy, you know who you are, I just wanna say...thank you. I'm happy to have you as my friend.



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Who is that "gay" I see staring straight back at me...?

Why is my reflection someone I don't know?

Must I pretend that I'm someone else for all time?

When will my reflection show...who I am inside?